Finding Calm in the Chaos

Takeaway: Patience can turn conflict into calm.

Context

Proverbs is full of wise sayings. This particular verse contrasts two types of people: the hot-tempered and the patient. It reminds us how our reactions can shape our relationships.

Meaning

When we think about being hot-tempered, it's easy to see how it leads to conflict. You know how a small disagreement can escalate into a full-blown argument? That’s what happens when we react too quickly. On the flip side, being patient helps us to diffuse tension. When we take a moment to breathe and respond thoughtfully, we can calm a situation instead of making it worse.

Patience isn’t just about waiting. It’s about how we handle our emotions. When we choose to be patient, we are saying that we value peace over being right. This doesn’t mean we ignore issues. It means we approach them with a calm heart and mind. We can create a more peaceful environment for ourselves and those around us.

Live It

• Next time you feel anger bubbling up, take a deep breath and count to ten before reacting.
• Reach out to someone you know is struggling. A simple message can show you care.
• Before your next conversation that might get heated, remind yourself of the importance of patience. Think about how you want to respond.

Reflect & Pray

Reflect: Are there situations in my life where I tend to lose my patience? How can I practice being calmer?
Pray: God, help me to be patient when I feel anger rising. Teach me to seek peace in my conversations. I want to build bridges, not walls.