The Value of Close Friends

Takeaway: Friends who are nearby can be a greater support than distant relatives.

Context

This part of Proverbs is all about wisdom. Solomon, known for his insights, is advising us on relationships. He emphasizes the importance of friends during tough times.

Meaning

In life, we often face challenges. When disaster strikes, having a close friend can be a real blessing. This verse reminds us that friends are essential. They are the ones who stand by us when we need help the most. Sometimes, relatives may not be as accessible as we hope. It’s easy to think family should always be there for us. But sometimes, the friends we choose are the ones who truly understand us.

We all need that friend who can drop everything and show up. Life can be unpredictable. Friends provide comfort and support during those unexpected moments. This passage encourages us to cherish those friendships. It’s a reminder to nurture the bonds we have with those who are close by, rather than relying solely on distant family.

Live It

• Reach out to a friend this week. Ask how they are really doing.
• Plan a coffee date with someone you haven’t seen in a while.
• When life feels overwhelming, call or text a friend for support.

Reflect & Pray

Reflect: Who in my life am I not valuing enough? How can I be a better friend to those around me?
Pray: God, thank You for the friends I have. Help me to be there for them as they are for me. Show me ways to strengthen our friendships.