The True Nature of Friendship

Takeaway: True friendship is about more than gifts or favors.

Context

This verse is part of the wisdom literature of Proverbs. It encourages us to think about the nature of relationships. It highlights how some people may only be friends because of what they can gain from others.

Meaning

Friendship should not be about what we can get from each other. It’s easy to be drawn to those who have something to offer, like power or gifts. But genuine friendship goes deeper. It’s built on trust, respect, and shared experiences. We often seek out friends who benefit us in some way. Yet, true friends are there for us without any strings attached. They support us in tough times and celebrate with us in good times.

When we focus on building friendships based on love and understanding, we create lasting bonds. It’s important to ask ourselves if we are being genuine in our friendships. Are we giving as much as we receive? Healthy friendships are a two-way street. They thrive on mutual care.

Live It

Start a conversation with someone you haven’t spoken to in a while.
Make a list of three friends and think of ways to support them this week.
Spend time with a friend just to enjoy their company, no gifts required.

Reflect & Pray

Reflect: Who in my life is a true friend? Am I being a genuine friend to others?
Pray: God, help me to value true friendship. Teach me to give without expecting anything in return. I want to nurture genuine connections.