Real Friends in Good Times and Bad

Takeaway: True friendship goes beyond wealth and status.

Context

Proverbs is full of practical wisdom. This particular verse reminds us that not everyone who claims to be a friend is genuine. It’s a reflection on how people can be drawn to wealth, but when times get tough, true friends are revealed.

Meaning

This verse highlights a tough reality. Many people will flock to those who have money or status. It’s easy to be friends with someone who can offer you something. But when the money runs out or times get difficult, those so-called friends often disappear. We see this in our own lives too. Sometimes, we might even find ourselves in situations where we feel used or abandoned.

True friends are loyal. They stick around when the going gets tough. They care about you for who you are, not what you have. This is a reminder for us to seek and cultivate authentic friendships. We should also strive to be that kind of friend. It’s about being there for others, especially when they need support the most.

Live It

• Reach out to a friend who might be struggling. A simple text can mean a lot.
• Reflect on your friendships. Make a list of those who genuinely support you.
• Offer help to someone in need this week. It could be listening or sharing a meal.

Reflect & Pray

Reflect: Who are the friends in your life that you can truly count on? Have you been a good friend to others?
Pray: God, help me recognize true friendships in my life. Teach me to be loyal and supportive. I want to be a friend who stays, no matter the circumstances.